Just like it goes with everything, a threesome is easier said than done. But if there's someone you can ask for advice on this topic, it's definitely an adult film star. And guess who we've thought of asking?

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Joanna Angel, who happens to be so much more than a porn star. Not only is she the owner of an extra hot website known as Burning Angel, which features a lot of NSFW content and - wait for it! - XXX parodies - she's also a porn writer and director. Yes, these titles exist in this industry too, which means that the threesomes you see in adult movies are 100% scripted. However, that doesn't mean yours have to be too, says Joanna.

Ditch all the planning, threesomes are supposed to be fun

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Whether we're talking about on- or off-screen action, Joanna's no stranger to the controversial ménage à trois. She's obviously had dozens of them so far and in her private life, she's met couples that were so keen on making sure everything turned out perfectly, that they ended up ruining the whole moment. Believe it or not, she's seen people who made elaborate schemes beforehand and came with specific rules about what everyone was and was not allowed to do. And that's exactly what you should avoid if you're seriously thinking of having a threesome, she says. Seize the moment and don't forget that ultimately, it's just a little fun you're aiming at, so just "let everybody do everything they want".

How do you find the right person for a threesome?

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The golden rule of threesomes is that you don't just go about asking random people in bars if they're up for one with you and your partner. That's just not how it goes - even if you do get a bunch of positive answers, try to remember that you're not that desperate. After all, you don't really want to bring a total freak into your bedroom, right? Let chemistry be your guide instead and choose a person you know you're going to feel comfortable with because. Vibes never lie, and if a certain person sends of positive signals and they're okay with your idea, then go for it. Keep in mind, though, that women are usually a lot more picky than men when it comes to choosing the third person, so tread lightly at all times.

Threesomes - who are they recommended to?

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According to Joanna, a threesome is something only confident couples will seek out. And by confident, she means couples with partners that are not only completely faithful and honest to each other, but also okay with everything their partners would like to try. And that's not all. For instance, there's no way everyone's going to get the same amount of sex in a threesome, and none of the partners should mind that, as long as they're all having fun. It's all about common goals!

Any conclusions?

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A threesome may seem complicated, but worrying too much about it is going to help at all. As long as you and your partner trust each other and the two of you find the right person to help you spice things up, everything's going to be perfect.

At least that's what the pro says.